invaluable

i have to cancel the tantric massage event. i have to, but i still feel like i’m massively letting you guys down.

because if there was ever a moment when these tools are essential, it is now.

back when i was a teen, i came across an article about abortion, the long path it had taken to get legalised.

the conclusion twisted my insides with ice.

“be prepared, because though it is legal now, you will need to fight to keep it so.

WITHIN THIS LIFETIME.

the right to decide what you do with your own body is the first thing that will get attacked in a time of crisis.

and that moment will come sooner than you expect.”

i couldn’t believe what i was reading. it had been legal since before i was born, and more things were getting legalised as i grew older - gay marriage and so on. it felt like the progression was linear and going towards inclusivity.

well.

all i can say is : this knowledge is available.

this knowledge is not valuable - it is invaluable.

how you do sex is how you do everything, and no one got educated with the subtleties of sovereignty and voicing our truth and how to stand, in respect and complete clarity, for what we want.

so.

you want that knowledge?

FIGHT FOR IT.

dig and read and experiment and exchange and ask questions and educate yourself.

i’m heartbroken to not be able to share this precious time with you all.

but if your curiosity has caught a spark,

the fire is yours to tend.

sending you all my love